Thirty, flirty, & thriving 🫶



 Well, here I am, 30! 😳🫠 As much as I’ve struggled with turning 30, I’ve come to accept it. It was going to happen and it did. It’s inevitable. 😅 One thing I’ve decided is that this next year is going to be my year! ❤️ So I’m putting out all the good vibes and energy out into the universe! I’m going to enjoy the first year of being 30. I’m going to take more time for myself by getting to know me more, being more confident, and improving each day to be the best version of ME that I can be.

That’s the point right? To love ourselves? To improve and to become the best we can be? Life has flown by the last few years and I don’t want to not live- the opposite in fact. I want to live- to do things that are on my bucket list, to travel, not stress out so much, be kinder to my body, cut out things that aren’t as important, see a lighthouse, travel ✈️, feel more empowered, and to freaking live it up to the fullest! 

If you’re feeling in the same boat, and you’re tired of the expectations that have been put on you, whether by society, religion, other people. etc. throw those out the window and be yourself!! You’re amazing, valued, beautiful, confident, smart, charismatic, and guess what? There’s only ONE YOU and you’re the only one living your life.

I’ve learned so many life lessons the last year in my life. 🫶 I’ve learned that God gives you agency to choose for yourself. That true friends are those that make an effort to stay in touch and be in your life. That vulnerability isn’t a weakness, and others admire that. That you’re the one that you get to spend your life with- so love yourself. That I can do hard things. 👊🏻  That even if others have this “great life” they still have their own share of problems- so be kind. Lastly, I’m always surprised and humbled of the sweet reminder that God loves me and is proud of me no matter what. I know He has a beautiful plan for me that I’m living as we speak! 🥰🙏🏻

So here’s to another great year! Here’s to being 30, single, and confident. I don’t know what the future holds, but I already know it’ll be one exciting adventure! 🎉🥳❤️ #30 #blessed #herestoanotheryear #thirtyflirtyandthriving



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