Seasons of sadness 🖤


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It’s been a while since I have written much, but these words have been on my mind. Some days I’m sad, not happy. Some days I’m overcome with jealousy, not happiness for others. Some days I feel like I failed.. like everyone around me are all moving forward with their lives, and I’m stuck..some days I compare my body, where I am at in life, and everything else to others. I end up asking myself “what I did wrong?” 😔

I know we’re not supposed to put our keys to happiness in others pockets. I know we shouldn’t compare our lives or where we are at verses where somewhere else is, and I know that there is a season for everything and timing, but some days it’s hard. Some days, it just sucks. 

Every single person in this world has dark days. Some, more than others. To those of you that do, to you I say hold on. Keep going. Get help. ❤️  To the rest of you that might feel like me sometimes, (which we ALL will feel this way at different times in our lives) keep going! Keep moving forward. Things will get better. The sadness won’t be there forever. 🫶 Remember that we all have seasons of sadness and adversity.😔 We all struggle and we all wish and hope for things that are different. That our lives could be different. That those things we want most might not ever happen or aren’t happening right now.. but it’s okay. It’s going to be okay. ❤️

I have been trying to just breathe. To learn to take one day at a time. To learn to get rid of the expectations I have for your life and just LIVE. To Learn to take care of myself (mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically, etc). 

YOU are the only one that knows you-because you’re with yourself 24/7. So, love yourself more, be kinder, don’t be jealous of others, don’t compare, give yourself some leeway, and don’t ever give up. ☀️You can do anything-don’t limit yourself. You never know what the future has in store.🤩 

Also don’t be afraid to express and share how you are feeling! Be vulnerable! Odds are someone else feels exactly the same.🖤

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